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Cancer Messenger Must Have Compassion or Risk an Emotional Breakdown

Mon Apr 11, 2011 9:36 AM EDT
health, cancer, university-of-pennsylvania, doctor-arrogance, cancer-messenger-compassion, hospital-vilification
By Dr. Sherman N. Miller
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When a person learns that he or she has cancer they are looking for the medical people to show compassion in delivering this devastating news or the patient might have an emotional breakdown.

A senior citizen lady at Battery Park in New Castle, DE shared a horrific story of her first learning she had breast cancer. She said she had a mammogram that revealed the beginning of breast cancer. The results touched her very very emotionally. This senior citizen was advised to speak with the head doctor for this subdivision of a major hospital complex.

Her voice became filled with disdain as she started to recount what happened. The gray in her hair and the wrinkles in her pale colored face allowed her Irish heritage to show through. She had a very determined look in her eyes as she continued.

This senior citizen lady says that the head doctor told her that her cancer revelation was not as bad as someone losing a child suggesting that she should stop being emotional. This comment was the straw that broke the camel’s back. The senior citizen lady says she immediately left this hospital and took her business to the University of Pennsylvania Hospital where she found excellent and compassionate treatment.

This lady’s story suggested that the cancer advertisement that I see on the television with the fellow claiming that the doctor wanted to know why he was smiling with his cancer revelation was underpinned by a legitimate concern and not merely one man’s experience. The cancer survivor highlights non-compassion by pointing outs the arrogance of these doctors. It was really distressful to hear this senior citizen lady railing her great disdain against the institution in which the unfeeling doctor worked when I knew it to be a great hospital with many fine doctors and nurses.

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mstanley2265

My late husband's 1st doctor told him he would have him back to work in 6 months. His 2nd doctor told him the truth, the prognosis was fatal. I have no idea why a Doctor would out and out lie to a patient. Is it really arrogance or just disdain for the truth, that all the medical care in the world isn't going to keep you alive?

Patients get emotional, it is their health after all, yet IMO not acknowledging their distress or comparing it to another issue, is not an appropriate way to help a patient.

Dr Miller, you do bring up some relevant issues. Thank you

    Reply#1 - Thu Apr 14, 2011 5:51 PM EDT
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